Thursday, January 1, 2009

We Celebrate Being Blessed with Knowing Melinda Cottam













I write you the sad news that Baby Boot Camper, Melinda Cottam, lost her battle with Ovarian Cancer on Tuesday, December 30th. She was an incredible woman, who we are all fortunate to have met, become friends with, and shared our children's early memories with. Mel was Mom to 2 year old Benjamin, wife to Michael, friend, supporter, cheerleader for you and for Baby Boot Camp. Her battle was fast, less than three months. But she fought hard and shared that she wanted to encourage education to the Moms along the way.

Throughout the past 1 1/2 years that Mel did Baby Boot Camp we got to be good friends, especially this past Summer. She shared with me how she and Ben loved going to classes and being around everyone. She said the comraderie amongst everyone was great, that you encourage each other through kindness not competitiveness in class. That you support one another's challenges in parenting with wishes of hope for an easier day tomorrow, or easier way of coping with the next tantrum. She loved that Ben made some little friends and she a playgroup of Mom friends. Mel came to hundreds of classes, every event, Beach Class, and many Mom's Nights Out. Her presence was a gift for everyone.

Melinda Rae Cottam- A Celebration of Her Life
Saturday, January 3rd 2009, 3PM
The Governor Hotel, Portland
2nd Floor, in the Billiard Room

In lieu of flowers, donations to the Children's Cancer Association would be appreciated.

Dress lively...this is a celebration of Melinda's life!

To help support the Cottam family, Melinda's Angels will be created in the next couple days. It is a way to bring groceries, food, and what's needed for the months ahead.

We are embark on this New Year all feeling blessed to have known Melinda and grateful for the memories of her smile after each hill repeat. She was a gift to all.

Much love to you and your families-

Erin Shirey

To send cards:
Michael & Benjamin Cottam
3166 North Winchell St.
Portland OR 97217

2 comments:

Mer and Josh's wedding said...

Hi, this is one of Melinda's cousins. Thank you guys so much for all of your support, how wonderful to know Melinda had friends like you all!! I saw the beautiful photos you put together for Ben and Michael. There was one picture of Mel and Ben looking directly at the camera. I don't see it on the page, is there anyway to get some copies?
Cheers, and "LAUGHTER",
Cathy Mee

Michael Cottam said...

Thanks for your tribute to Melinda here--means a lot to me. And for all of you who came to her service...that really helped our whole family, seeing all the lives she'd touched.

All the best,

Michael.